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Monday, January 30, 2012

Online Herpes Videos and Herpes Articles Resources You Can Use

The internet has a wealth of information about herpes, in the form of websites, videos and articles. With videos, there is a huge variety, from videos with mean herpes jokes, to medical videos which are highly technical. The internet also has videos with personal herpes stories, and practical videos which give help on preventing outbreaks. With articles, there are many written by doctors and medical experts, as well as articles by people sharing their own experiences with herpes, and how they are dealing with herpes outbreaks and relationships. This article will describe some of the types of video and article resources regarding herpes which you can find on the internet.

I will cover videos first, and mention those with cruel and mean jokes. I believe they are produced by ignorant people who know little about herpes, and they attempt to raise their own self-image by belittling the dignity of others. The ironic thing is, some of those people actually have herpes and don't know it. I mention it because it is important for those of us with herpes to be constantly thinking positive thoughts, so that we can raise our own self-esteem and have better lives. For this reason it is wise to seek out positive people in all areas of our lives, and to ignore those who make jokes about herpes.

Some videos have personal stories, and they may include information about how the video presenter overcame their initial anger and despair, and how they learned to prevent outbreaks and have a good relationship. Some of these types of videos are promoting or selling a product for herpes. But rather than just dismiss such videos as a sort of infomercial, it can be useful and enlightening to watch them, and take the practical knowledge that some of them contain. You can then implement some of that knowledge and experience into your own life.

Other herpes videos are by doctors or medical authorities. Many of these videos are very technical and boring, and unfortunately the presenters often have poor speaking skills. To get all of what they are presenting, you have to watch the whole video. To quickly get just the information you want, articles are much quicker, as you can scan the articles until you find what you want, or click and find another article.

This brings us to the topic of herpes articles. Most articles are written by authors with good writing skills, and they are short, concise, and to the point. Articles can save you a lot of research time compared to videos. You can search for articles with key words, and quite quickly find the information that you are seeking. Like videos, they may have highly technical information, or very practical information, as well as personal stories concerning the author's trials and tribulations with herpes. Both videos and articles can be inspiring, and give you hope, which is something that anyone who is new to the herpes experience will appreciate.

I help people with herpes and I have made a webpage with 7 herpes articles and 4 herpes videos. The webpage is confidential. You can quickly scan the articles and watch the videos and learn a lot about herpes relationships, and how to prevent herpes outbreaks and lots more.

http://futurenewsnow.tv/Herpes.html

I have herpes, so I know what it's like.


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When Will There Be a Cure for Herpes?

Will there ever be a cure for herpes? And if so, when? Many people are asking these questions. With over 20% of the adult population with herpes now, a cure for herpes will certainly be big news. This article addresses the possibility for a cure, and when it might happen, and what to do in the meantime.

Research has been ongoing for many years, and a lot of progress has been made. It seems that the herpes virus is sneaky. When the virus is not on the surface, causing an outbreak, it seems to hide itself. When it is hidden, it is impossible for any drug or treatment to effectively kill the virus. But researchers have found the part of the viral genome codes that allow the virus to hide out during latent periods. They think they may be able to develop a drug that will make the virus come out of dormancy so that it can be eradicated by antiviral drugs. This drug would cause a massive herpes outbreak, but it would mean that the virus could be destroyed, once and for all.

This is a lot more complicated and stressful on the body by comparison to a flu shot for example. But learning how herpes embeds itself into the cells, and how it eludes treatment, is an important first step in finding a cure. For this reason, researchers are now confident that they are closer to creating drugs that could cure herpes.

Despite the large percentage of the adult population who have herpes, there is relatively little funding for research. Why, this is is not clear. It may be because herpes is usually not life threatening, while cancer and other diseases are. Funding for herpes is mostly by governments, whereas for cancer research it is government funding along with a lot of private funding, raised by donations and events such as Run for the Cure and other community fund raising drives.

It is estimated that an actual cure is still a long ways off. If the first found of tests on animals are successful, most experts feel it will still be 10 to 20 years until the cure would be available for humans. And none of them can say that the first animal trials will be successful for sure. While the researchers are hopeful, for most people with herpes, 10 to 20 years is a long time to maintain hope, and life goes on in the meantime.

The best thing for anyone who has herpes now is to learn to live with it, and this is best done by learning how to keep the virus in remission to eliminate or reduce outbreaks. It should be known that over half the people with herpes, do not have outbreaks at all. To anyone who is having regular outbreaks, this should be a good incentive to find out how these other people avoid outbreaks, and how they can join this group.

I have been helping people with herpes prevent outbreaks for over 16 years, and I offer free consultations by email. To email me, use the email address on my website:
http://www.herpesgone.com/
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Sunday, January 29, 2012

How Do You Get Herpes?

There is more public awareness about herpes these days, and people who don't have it, are wondering how you get herpes, and what they can do to avoid getting it. And people who have recently got herpes often are not sure how they got it, and wonder about the different ways that you can get herpes. Also, many people have heard that you can get herpes from hot tubs, saunas and steam rooms, towels and toilet seats. This article addresses all of these issues.

First, I will address all of the possibilities that do not include sexual contact. It is possible to transfer the virus through non sexual contact, though this is the least likely method of transfer of the herpes virus. To understand why, you need to know the characteristics of a virus. The herpes virus needs a host to survive and multiply to cause an infection. They get their "nourishment" or "food" from the fluids in a warm body. Outside of a body, the virus can temporarily survive for a brief period. This period of time can be only a few seconds, or up to about 4 minutes under ideal conditions. Ordinary soap kills the herpes virus. So if you use a towel after someone else with herpes has used it, there is only a very small chance that you would become infected. Presuming the other person used soap there would be very few if any viruses on the towel. As the viruses start to die within seconds, the odds of you getting infected start diminishing right away. Regarding hot tubs, chlorine kills the virus, so there is little chance of you getting infected in a hot tub is chlorine is used.

Here is a scenario where you might get herpes through non sexual contact, and it could apply to toilet seats, or the benches in a sauna or steam room, or sitting on the edge of a hot tub that is not chlorinated. First, someone with herpes would have to sit down, and through sweat or urine, "leak" some viruses from their genitals or an open wound. Then, you would have to sit in the same spot, almost immediately, and have a cut or open wound that the virus could enter through. The use of swim suits would make this almost impossible. The odds of it happening are very remote indeed.

Kissing or oral contact can spread herpes. Herpes could enter you through a cut or through the mucus membranes of your mouth or genitals. This means that oral sex can definitely spread herpes.

This brings us to the final possible way that you can get herpes, and it is through vaginal or anal intercourse. Intercourse like this is by far the most likely way of getting herpes. The kinds of herpes that people are most concerned with are vaginal herpes, penis herpes and anal herpes. Using condoms will reduce the risk of these kinds of herpes, but not eliminate the risk completely.

You can also get herpes on your arms, legs, abdomen and buttocks as well as your face. By noting the different ways that you can get herpes, you can gain some peace of mind, and also plan your life regarding activities around hot tubs, steam rooms, saunas and the use of towels.

If you do get herpes, it does not mean that your sex life is over. Having sex with herpes is the topic of another article, but suffice it to say that learning how to prevent outbreaks is a big part of having a good sex life if you or your partner has herpes.

I help people with vaginal and penis herpes eliminate outbreaks, and I answer herpes questions through the email address on my website. The website is completely confidential.

http://www.herpes-herbs.com/


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Herpes - Don't Let the Herpes Virus Control Your Life, Control Your Herpes Instead!

Herpes Simplex Virus is the name given to the viral infection which typically produces 'cold sores' or blisters around the mouth and/or genitals.

The herpes virus most commonly comes in two variations - Herpes Simple Virus#1 (common cold sores) and Herpes Simplex Virus #2 (commonly genital herpes.) The herpes virus can also cause chicken pox, shingles, Cytomegalovirus,encephalitis. We will concern ourselves with Herpes #1 and #2 in this article. Also, be aware a herpes viral infection is life-long, and incurable, at the time of this writing.

The symptoms are similar regardless of type.Typically a cluster of small, painful, itchy blisters on the mouth, or in the genital area.When the blisters burst they form a soft, open sore which is usually acutely painful, and contagious!. You may also experience feverishness, and general feeling of un-wellness (flu like symptoms) and swollen glands.

Genital herpes is usually sexually transmitted and can be transmitted to others even if no active symptoms are even present (called viral shedding.) Both variations of the herpes virus can be spread through skin on skin contact, especially if are present.

Women contract it more often than men, and often experience feelings of anger and embarrassment, sometimes depression. Because you haven't built up any antibodies your first attack will normally be the worst and an untreated outbreak will last anywhere from 2 to 3 weeks.You must avoid any sexual activity whilst you have sores or you may transmit the virus to your sexual partner.

Predisposing or triggering factors contributing to outbreaks may include localised irritation/trauma, sunlight, stress, hormonal disturbances including menstruation and pregnancy. Emotional trauma or other infections can contribute to a lowering of resistance and an increased likelihood of an outbreak.

Treatment with herbs can be highly beneficial as it is possible to address all the contributing factors with a synergistic combination of Herbal ingredients.

One herb that warrants special mention is St Johns Wort (Hypericum perforatum). It has a particular affinity for the nervous system and the pain associated with inflamed nerve endings.The herb can be taken internally and can also be applied externally. As mentioned previously you may suffer from feelings of depression and St Johns Wort has been clinically proven to assist with depression. I believe there may be a direct link between the herpes virus and depression. Other herbs to consider are Echinacea, Cleavers, Pokeroot, Red Clover, Myrrh, Calendula and Golden Seal or Berberis.

You might consider removing any processed/ denatured foods from your diet as these tax your digestive system, which indirectly places a strain on your immune system as well. Drink 6 glasses of spring water daily if you can and cut out any alcohol, coffee or caffeinated/carbonated drinks.

If you are overworking or stressed try and slowdown and become aware of your breathing. Most of us breathe shallowly when we are stressed. Practise taking your breath down into your belly and holding for a count of 4 before breathing out as slowly as you can. Do this for a few minutes 2 to 3 times daily and you will feel your whole body relax.

You could also try using essential oils (Aromatherapy) to aid healing and relaxation. Bergamot, Lavender, Tea tree, Geranium, Chamomile,Thyme and Lemon are all useful.

You can add them to your bathwater or you can dilute them in a carrier oil such as Almond oil / Olive oil and dab them directly onto the affected area. Remember the skin around your genital area is quite sensitive so I would suggest a dilution of 1 drop essential oil to 2mls of carrier oil.Try and combine at least 3 of the above.If you are new to Aromatherapy then go and smell the oils and choose the 3 you most like.

Cell Salts are also useful and I would recommend Natrum Mur. Just use as directed on the bottle.

The amino acid Lysine is has also been shown to assist with herpes outbreaks. As soon as you notice any symptoms start taking the Lysine as directed on the bottle.Some people find it beneficial to take a daily tablet on an ongoing basis to help prevent is also very useful to boost immunity and you can usually buy a product which combines lysine and zinc and perhaps Vit C, just do a search while at Amazon.com.

If you think you've contracted the Herpes Virus the first thing you should do is visit your personal health care practitioner, to be diagnosed.

Want more information on the herpes virus? Visit my main page at: Herpes Virus Natural Remedies

Also you'll want to join my newsletter for the latest herpes treatment options sent straight to your inbox. You'll find a sign-up form at the top left of any page on my site.


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Unusual Facts and Myths About Herpes

Herpes affects a lot of people, but because it is so personal, it is not talked about a lot. Talking about in a restricted manner, like it is a taboo subject, leads to misconceptions, myths, and half truths. This article will present some facts about herpes and a few myths too.

The fact is about 20 percent of adult males have herpes, and about 25 percent of adult females has herpes. The reason more females have herpes is because women are more susceptible to getting it because the female genitals have more areas with cells that are moist with body fluids than men. This means if a woman has sexual intercourse with a man with herpes, she is more likely to get it than a man who has sexual intercourse with a woman who has herpes.

More people in New York City have herpes than the national average. It is not likely that anyone can say conclusively why this is so, but a logical assumption would be that there is more promiscuity there than the national average. A myth is that condoms provide complete protection against the spread of genital herpes. The fact is condoms provide only partial protection from herpes virus infections. Condoms reduce the risk, but they do not entirely remove the risk. This is because condoms cannot cover all the areas where the herpes virus may be present.

Here is a myth: Herpes is a dangerous infection that only affects people with very active sex lives, or people who are very promiscuous. The fact is herpes affects people of all backgrounds, income levels, education levels and ethnic groups. People with very few sex partners can get herpes. And regarding the danger, for most people the symptoms are so mild that about half the people with herpes do not even know they have it. It cannot cause death, unless it is a complication in a more serious infection, especially with someone with a severely compromised immune system.

Fact: In the heat of the moment, about 32% of people with herpes will lie about it and say they do not have herpes. For this reason it is better to plan in advance to be honest, and bring the subject up before going that far. And it is a myth that oral sex is safe sex. Cold sores, which are a form of herpes, can be transmitted from the lips to the genitals, and vice versa.

Here is a myth about monogamous relationships: If you are in a monogamous relationship and you get herpes, then your partner must have cheated on you. The truth is you or your partner may have contracted the virus a long time ago, and the symptoms may have been so mild, or misdiagnosed as something else, that you or your partner did not know you had it. But due to stress or other factors, you or your partner had a more severe outbreak, and then either of you infected the other. This is a possibility, however, there is also a good chance that your partner cheated on you.

And lastly, it is most unlikely that herpes can be transmitted by a toilet seat. There are no known proven cases of someone getting herpes from a toilet seat.

The fact is anybody can get herpes, and the question is, if you have herpes, what are you going to do about it, and what are you going to do about getting on with your life? I have had herpes for over 16 years, and now I help others learn how to prevent outbreaks, and have relationships with herpes. I offer a free service where I answer questions about herpes by email. You can visit my website to ask a question about herpes, and learn how you can prevent outbreaks: http://www.herpes-herbs.com/


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Preventing Herpes Outbreaks - Using Prescription Drugs or Herbal Formulas

If you are experiencing herpes outbreaks, you probably want to learn how to prevent them, and you may have heard of prescription drugs and herbal products which do this. Drugs and herbal products work differently from each other, and there are pros and cons to either, which include safety, side effects and cost. This article addresses all of these issues, so that you can decide for yourself which is right for you.

I will first discuss the prescription drug approach to preventing herpes outbreaks. The prescription drugs are antiviral medications which can be used to shorten the duration of outbreaks, or they can be taken on a continuous basis, to suppress the virus so that no outbreaks occur. These drugs go by various brand names, some of which are advertised on TV. To keep the virus suppressed, they are taken from one to three times daily. They work by blocking viral replication, and suppressing viral shedding. They are available by prescription only, and can cost up to $2500 per year. There are known side effects, which affect the liver and users are advised to stop taking them after a year. An analogy that can be used to understand how these drugs work, is to think of a lawn with dandelions growing in it. You can use a herbicide to spray on the lawn, which will kill the dandelions and not the lawn. You can think of it as a selective poison. While it will kill the dandelions, the herbicide also gets on the lawn grass, and soaks into the soil. It has the desired effect of killing the dandelions, but it also poisons the soil, and eventually washes through the soil, and finds it's way into storm drains, and then creeks and rivers, polluting the environment. Similarly, the prescription drugs suppress the virus, but they also pollute your personal environment, which is your body. The side effects can be minor for some people, and serious for others.

The herbal formulas for herpes work in a different way. They strengthen the immune system, so that the body's own natural defence mechanisms can keep the virus in remission. About half the people with herpes have immune systems which are naturally strong enough on their own to keep the virus in remission. For other people, the herpes herbals boost their immune system so that it is then strong enough to keep the virus in remission. There are no side effects, or minimal side effects. The cost for a years supply can be between $200 and $400, and no prescription is needed.

I have had herpes for over 16 years. At first, I used to have regular outbreaks, but I don't anymore. I discovered a natural herbal formula that prevents outbreaks, and I offer it on my website. On my site, I also answer questions about herpes. This service is free, and completely confidential: http://www.herpes-herbs.com/


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How to Start Feeling Better About Having Herpes

If you are depressed about having herpes, this article will cheer you up. After you read it, you'll still have herpes, but you'll feel better. You'll feel better, because you will realize you are not alone, and that there are lots worse things that could happen to you.

If you do a search on the internet for a list of celebrities with herpes, you will find some long lists, with famous sports superstars, movie stars, rock stars, and even a guy who used to work at the White House! The point is, anyone can get it. Herpes knows no social boundaries, and it doesn't matter if you are highly educated or not, or what your spiritual beliefs are or what race you are, or if you are promiscuous or not for that matter. And, it doesn't mean you are a bad person if you have herpes.

The fact is millions and millions of people in the world have herpes. About one in five adults in North America has herpes. In New York City, it is one in four. Think about that next time you are in a check out line at a grocery store or drug store. Someone in front of you or behind you, or the maybe the cashier has herpes. When sitting in a movie theatre, you are surrounded by people with herpes.

Having herpes can be a big distraction in your life, or it can be a minor inconvenience, or no inconvenience at all. The choice is yours. I know this will be hard to believe if you are having frequent outbreaks at this time in your life, and if you have just had a relationship end because of herpes or if you are alone and discouraged about finding a mate. But it is possible. The first thing to know, is that half the people with herpes never have outbreaks. Many do not even know they have it, which is one reason it spreads so easily. The good news is you can learn to be in the fifty percent who do not have herpes. It involves taking good care of yourself emotionally and physically. When you do this, your immune system actually starts to work better, and when your immune system is strong, it keeps the virus in remission and you don't have outbreaks. The worst thing you can do is to isolate and feel sorry for yourself. Studies have shown that when a person with herpes comes out of isolation, and starts to make more social contact, their outbreaks diminish. Also, there are herbal formulas which help strengthen your immune system. Having your immune system strong is your key to reducing or eliminating herpes outbreaks. Then, you can start to think again about having sex and a relationship, and you will start to feel much happier. Many have done just that, so it is possible.

Herpes will then become a minor concern in your life. There are many things that could happen to you which are worse, such as getting a disease that causes you to lose the use of your legs, or getting injured and loosing a hand or a finger for instance. You can think of other examples, and by comparison, herpes is minor.

One of the main causes of depression is longing to change things and not being able to do so. Once we accept what is, and stop wishing we could somehow turn back the clock, we become much happier. Many many others have learned to accept what is, and to get on with life, and as a consequence they are much happier. You can do so too!

I have had herpes for over 16 years, and now I rarely think about it. It was not like this at first of course. But I learned how to prevent herpes outbreaks, and now I help others do the same. I answer questions through the email on my websites, which also tell how to prevent outbreaks.

http://www.herpes-herbs.com/

I know what it is like to feel depressed about it, but I promise you you will feel better.


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