So you've met this great woman. You've been dating a couple weeks. You're really excited.
Tonight's the night, man. It's going to happen. We're going all the way.
Before you even start the date, you're wondering, "Should I bring protection? Does she have protection? Am I going to need to wrap it?"
So you have a nice dinner and you guys are hitting it off. You go back to her pad. Things are beginning to get hot and heavy. Tonight's the night. It's going down.
She gets naked. You get naked. She looks at you and doesn't mention anything. You don't mention anything. Or if you're smart, you ask about a condom. "Do you have one? Do we need one?"
She gives you a big smile and says, "Oh don't worry about it, you don't need to use one. We're all good."She doesn't ask if you're clean, if you've had any tests, nothing. You've basically just gotten an ISD from her. No, not an IOI-an indicator of interest-but an ISD: Indicator of Sexual Disease.
Let's put it this way: most women are guarding the prize down there. They want to keep that thing clean. They don't want herpes. They don't want chlamydia. They don't want anything dirty poking its way in there.
So if you've got a woman who you barely know and she's like, "Don't worry about it, just come on inside. It's warm, it's moist, it's inviting in here. No problem at all. Just insert your thing in here and start moving around..."That's an indicator that she's got something down there because that's her most valuable asset and she's not protecting it. There's your ISD.
So you think you're lucky because you've landed a cool woman who you barely know who's willing to let you ride her bareback. Well, you certainly have met a woman who loves to share. She wants to share whatever funky stuff she's got going on down there. Oh, she's more than willing to share with you, because she's probably shared with some other guy the night before.
She wants the whole world to be singing a fun little song, "I've got the whole Herpes in my box, I've got the whole wide Herpes in my box, I've got the whole Herpes in my box...and I'm going to share it with you."It's true.
Author Info: David Wygant a leading personal dating coach, dating advice professional and image-maker. For 20 years David Wygant has worked to earn the trust of American men looking to transform their love lives. David also has a dedicated women's dating advice site that offers a wealth of free dating information specifically for women.
