The common first reaction for most people when diagnosed with an std is a 'tunnel vision' view of lifelong loneliness and humiliation. There's a tendency to become attached to feelings of anger and depression. If you're young and otherwise healthy, you may think that future dreams of getting married and starting a family are lost to you.
Although this is natural, be aware that these feelings are highly exaggerated. Dating for people with std's is by no means impossible; if you have herpes, for example, it's worth knowing that between 20% to 25% of adults in North America are living with the same condition. Many are in the prime of their lives, and simply looking for a partner to whom their std will not be an issue.
Online Dating for People with STDs
This is where online dating can be your best friend. Since 2002, a handful of dating sites have sprung up online that are specifically related to STD dating. Twenty years ago, being diagnosed with an std meant that to avoid being alone you were forced to take your chances in the usual 'singles' environments. Today, you can get to know people online who have the same problem, therefore making it a non-issue. No anxiety about disclosure, no fears about spreading to a non-infected partner.
Be aware that to join an std-related dating site does not mean that you have to dwell on or be defined by your condition. You will find that most members have no interest in that, but rather want to be free to focus on their more interesting and dynamic characteristics. You also find, in std dating sites, groups of people who are more ethical than the standard, as joining is a step taken away from uncaringly infecting others.
So which is the best std dating site? As with any dating site, it's the one that is the most popular, since it will give you more choices, even in a smaller city. As a member of several std dating sites online, I've found that PositiveSinglesOnline.com is the hands down winner. It was established way back in 2002, and has developed the most solid reputation in that time.
I hope this information has been helpful!
