Real relationships are based on reciprocal understanding and trust. But what to do if you have discovered you have genital herpes? It is really very terrible. And the feelings which you experience at this moment are precisely negative towards your partner. Herpes can cause serious misunderstanding and even conflicts in a couple. The offense, the feeling of humiliation and dander are those emotions which prevail in that partners who has discovered the infection.
Very often after that the relationships ruin, as there is no more understanding and even friendly feelings towards each other. But this is the worst scenario. You can create your own individual one. Everything depends only on you. It is necessary not to be so desperate. Before starting any conflicts with your partner, evaluate the situation. Get all necessary analysis and find out what stage of disease you have. The things may not be so serious if the disease is at the initial stage.
After that offer your partner an open conversation. Let him/her know what has happened and watch his/her reaction. Do not make any quick conclusions. Your partner can also be shocked and worried. Give him/her and you enough time to think about the future of your relationships. And define for yourself what this person means in your life. If it really means something do everything not to destroy your future because of a single mistake, as you will certainly regret about your parting.
In fact, genital herpes virus is considered a serious disease. It is transmitted in most of cases through the sexual contact. It can have an invisible character, and this is the most dangerous scenario. However, today there exist very effective medications which successfully stop the further development of virus. Regular and correct treatment can lead with time to the complete recovery. So, try to calm down.
There are situations when women discover they have herpes during their pregnancy. In this case it is necessary to inform your doctor about the situation and to follow his recommendations. Most women born healthy children in spite of the fact they are infected. So, enjoy your pregnancy period and think of your future baby. It is a great motivation to take care of your health and think positive. Remember, that herpes is not a sentence and can be cured with time. Be positive and do not lose your close and dear people because of a single life mistake.
