There are currently more than 65 million Americans living with an STD and chances are you are one of them or know someone who is. Living with an STD can be challenging and remarkably difficult. But with the right perspective and proper treatment, you can lead a normal life.
I Tested Positive - What Now?
Once the initial shock has worn off, it's vital that you educate yourself about the disease. The doctors and nurses at the clinic you were tested can provide you with information on how to manage your disease. In some cases, STDs can be cured with medication, while others will be a lifelong issue that must be managed. Speak to your personal doctor to find out what options you have for treating your disease.
I Feel So Ashamed
Because of social stigmas and self-inflicted shame, individuals with STDs are rapidly losing their quality of life. It is vital that young women who are infected with an STD understand that they are in no way less of a human being because they were diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease; it's simply a matter of having a medical condition that requires attention, much like most people in society.
I Feel Angry
Anger, resentment, and frustration are all normal emotions to feel when diagnosed with an STD. However, do your best to resist immediate urges to place blame. If you have had more than one sexual partner and not been tested between each one, you may not know who exposed. It is also quite possible that they did not realize they were putting you at risk. Anger and other negative emotions will only make you feel and the situation itself worse.
No One Knows How I Feel
Seek support from those who understand what you are dealing with. Many areas offer weekly support groups where members of the community can connect with others. There are also a myriad of online support groups, forums, and sites for singles, such as herpes dating sites [http://www.sunshinedates.com/].
How will the STD Affect My Relationships?
People you may want to disclose your disease to include sex partners, family, close friends, and individuals you live with. Telling sex partners after you have tested partner is not an easy thing, but in some states, it is against the law not to if you have an STD. Furthermore, those who really want to be with you will appreciate and respect your openness and honesty. Telling family and close friends could provide you with further love and support. Roommates or people we live with can often see us at our most vulnerable, so you may want to consider telling them so you do not have to stress and worry about it.
