If you have recently been diagnosed with herpes simplex 2, you may think that sex will never be enjoyable - or possible - again. But, as with anything, knowledge is power, and the potential for herpes simplex 2 transmission can be minimized significantly with just a few key precautions.
Now be aware that no strategy or combination of strategies creates an environment where your partner has a 0% chance of infection. There is always some risk involved, but your partner will likely feel much more at ease if you do the following:
o Take a daily dose of anti-viral medication. In one study of nearly 1500 herpes simplex 2 sufferers, 741 were given a placebo, while 743 were given a daily 500mg dose of the drug valacyclovir (sold under the trade names Valtrex and Zelitrex). In total, there were 20 infections to previously non-infected partner; 16 of those were to those whose partner took the placebo (a 2.2% chance), while the remaining 4 occurred when the partner took valacyclovir (a mere 0.5%). Of course, this should only be taken with doctor approval.
o Always use a good condom. Although studies measuring the effects of condom use are incomplete at best, the general results tend to show condom effectiveness as roughly 40%-50% effective in avoiding herpes simplex 2 transmission. The key is to use a good, strong latex condom and not allow any transfer of fluids during removal.
Naturally, you also want to avoid engaging in penetration or oral sex when an outbreak occurs. This may be frustrating, but also allows for some creativity in the bedroom. At any rate, your partner will be thankful that you're educated and doing everything possible to avoid herpes simplex 2 transmission.
Now, what if you're newly single and have herpes simplex 2? Is it time to lock yourself in your house and hide from the world? Develop a shield of bitterness towards everyone? I wouldn't recommend any of this...though if you don't relish the idea of disclosing your condition to every potential mate you meet, you may want to try online dating, where you can easily and discreetly find others close by, and in the same situation.
To investigate what I'm talking about, check out PositiveSinglesOnline.com, or read a little more about HSV 2 dating [http://www.squidoo.com/hsv2-dating].
